I've received a decent amount of sexual interest from other gay men and would like to have a relationship. But I'm terrified of bottoms. The thought of anal sex fills me with fear and is a serious turn-off. I enjoy oral sex and intimacy, but I realise that this isn't enough for most potential partners. I'm worried that if I do meet somebody I like, this will be a deal-breaker. Should I try to get over this phobia?
Today's question put to The Guardian's agony aunt, Pamela Stephenson Connolly.
What would you say to our tormented gay student?
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ReplyDeleteI don't understand.
ReplyDeleteIs he terrified of other people's bottoms?
Or his own bottom?
Or just gay dudes who "bottom"?
I think he thinks he is being stalked by his own bottom.
DeleteEvery time he looks round, there it is. :(
Once you've had bottom, you'll never go back.
ReplyDelete"I'd rather have a bottom under me than a bottom on top o' me" - Dorothy Parker
ReplyDeleteHahahah!
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I ballsed it up: "I'd rather have a bottom in front of me than a bottom on top 'o me".
DeleteO well...
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Is that a bottle in front of me or a frontal lobotomy?
ReplyDeleteIs that a picture of Tom crying over spilt milk?
ReplyDeleteEase up, guys'n'gals. Yep, there's something awfully gigglesome about "I'm terrified of bottoms", but I wouldn't be surprised if the phrase were a sub's sad attempt to make more decorous something a bit earthier in the original. The guy's problem is genuine enough.
ReplyDeleteReally?
DeleteI know how he feels, even though I'm gay I find anal sex repulsive!
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