"In November last year, television fitness expert Angie Dowds killed herself jumping from Beachy Head. Last
week's inquest reveals that Dowds, who'd previously struggled with
addictions, had toxic levels of alcohol and drugs in her system at the
time of her death. She was also anxious about work and had split from
her partner, to whom she sent a text: "My heart is broken, my spirit is
broken." Such a sad story, and one which requires no embellishment. Why,
then, was the fact that Dowd was a lesbian deemed so intrinsic to the
tragedy? When a human being feels so beaten and lost that only suicide
is the answer, what does their sexuality have to do with it?
"Dowds was a lesbian, but her suicide was not lesbian. Dowds had a
sexual orientation, but her death didn't...
"Even
today, there are still times when people's sexuality has a direct
bearing on their death – such as the ongoing persecution of gay people
all over the world and the recent spate of suicides of bullied gay
teenagers. Sometimes a death, or a suicide, truly warrants being defined
as "gay" or "lesbian". Angie Dowd's didn't, and the rush to label it
makes me wonder just how much we've really moved on."
The great Barbara Ellen writing in The Observer.
Headline illustration from the Daily Mail, natch.
But what of the inverse of this - The Obituary Closet?
Sunday, 24 June 2012
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