Monday, 5 March 2012

Marriage: The Tipping Point 2

When David Cameron told his party conference in October that he supported gay marriage because he was a Conservative, he may not have fully anticipated the range and force of the opposition that he would elicit. He knows now. Despite a torrent of criticism from clerical and political opponents of same-sex marriage, Mr Cameron is right. Legal equality of same-sex marriage with the marriage of a man and a woman would be a just and wise reform. It would enrich the institution of marriage, enhance social stability and expand the sum of human happiness. It is a cause that has the firm support of The Times.
The Government will begin a consultation this month on introducing legislation to allow same-sex marriages. Opponents accuse the Government of undermining the foundations of marriage and abusing the power of the State. It was predictable that some Conservative backbenchers would deride the proposals as (in the words of one of them) “completely nuts”. But more influential figures are deploying similarly heated rhetoric.
Cardinal Keith O’Brien, the leader of the Roman Catholic Church in Scotland, yesterday branded the Government’s position a “grotesque subversion of a universally accepted human right”. Dr John Sentamu, the Archbishop of York, has accused the Government of acting like a dictatorship. More temperately, Dr Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury, maintains that changing the law to allow gay marriage would force unwanted change on the rest of the nation.
If the critics were to restrict their case to stressing the institution of marriage as a support for stable families and societies, they would be making an important contribution to debate. And, though Cardinal O’Brien and Dr Sentamu have chosen to embellish their argument with absurd and inflammatory invective, Dr Williams, a Christian leader of great intellectual gifts, raises an issue that should give pause to those who support change.
Reforms to marital law need to be informed by a sense of history, lest they give rise to unintended and damaging consequences. Only in the past generation has the principle of same-sex marriage gained widespread support. It is not a frivolous criticism that the legitimacy of marriage and the social cohesion that it provides might be damaged if the law is rewritten without regard for how most people understand an historic institution.
The objection is misguided, even so. British society has in 45 years gone from decriminalising homosexuality to introducing civil partnerships. That legislative and cultural distance is immense. Only one of the reasons that such reforms have enhanced the quality of life is their expansion of personal liberty. Recognising the validity of homosexual relationships serves the public good too. It has encouraged gay couples to commit to enduring partnerships, in which many show a devotion, care and disinterested love that do far more to create ordered domesticity than government programmes could ever achieve.
So far from damaging marriage, expanding it to same-sex couples shores it up. Stable gay relationships are a part of national life. If marital law cannot accommodate them, the purpose of marriage will eventually be brought into question. Gay marriage will be a notable but still evolutionary social reform. And the marriage contract has changed historically to take account of shifting mores.
Earlier ages considered that allowing women to own property was against God and nature. Changing the law abolished a gross injustice and thereby enhanced the legitimacy of marriage. It is time to lift another form of discriminatory treatment. Reforming the law would enrich the lives of same-sex couples who wish to marry in order to affirm by rite that they love and are loved in return. By that commitment, they will enrich the society and culture that their fellow citizens share.

Editorial in The Times today.
Worth reprinting in full as it's behind the paywall, and also quite a landmark.
I shall make no comment on the vagaries of it, beyond to say we have now quite clearly won.
Thank you.
Oh and fuck you, you Godist fucktard.
No-one gives a flying fuck what you think about anything anymore.
You are gone, dead, buried.

It's 2012.

4 comments:

  1. Reads like Julian Glover copy

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  2. Always surprises me Tories aren't all for marrying us off to stop us getting up to anything else.

    Which is why I'm not in favour of gay marriage.

    It's begging for integration. In the words of Comrade Jimmy, 'the price is too high.'

    I'll give the slightest fuck about integrating with heterosexual society when it shows itself to be fit to integrate with, thanks.

    The common argument against this is 'well, nobody's forcing you to get married.' No, but with marriage comes tax breaks. IE incentives, slowly forcing people to do it. It becomes normal. It becomes weird if you don't do it. You inherit prudishness and the glorification of the family unit along with it.

    Gay culture and community gives you the opportunity to build something *better* than mainstream society - in many ways, it is, but we're going to throw that away, and beg to be allowed into institutions that haven't wanted anything to do with us for centuries and called us subhuman for the sake of a mildly quieter life.

    Well, fuck it. Heterosexual society is nothing to aspire to or want to be a part of.

    Talk about equality all you want but the Stonewall rioters would've fucking died before they got married or signed up to the military.

    I feel desperately sold out by all of this. It's fucking pathetic.

    Obviously they're still ubercunts tho because their reasoning for disagreeing is totally different.

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  3. I think we're already getting to the point where it's seen as immature to spend your weekends trawling Grindr for teenage Brazilian cock. Just fucking think about that.

    It's not immature or childish, it's just enjoyable. And you can say that about a lot of things. You hear a lot of 'you'll change when you grow up' but there's no shortage of examples of gayers who didn't. I got told I'd feel differently about girls when I was older. I didn't believe them and didn't listen then, and I'm not believing them or listening now.

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